Love (the couple type of love / BF-GF Love )...
I suddenly decided to blog about it...
coz my fren Serene borrowed me this few books..
They kinda talk about love and the rights and wrong about it...
I read it.. and find what it said is quite true.. and i do agree with it...
NO OFFENCE! But i'm saying this with the basis of my own experience..what i felt and what i saw..
So often, people especially teenagers confuse about love..
It is true.. there is a drive that makes one eager to have a BF/GF when they are teenage..
But that is because of curiosity? Needs? or just merely wanting company?
How much Love is true and how long will the love last..?
YES! You might disagree with me... even so i also disagree with my self..
But the cruel truth.. I saw couples that have been together for years break up..
Not because if quarrel.. but just simply.. the feeling faded away.. no feel..
Don't you think its such a waste... a great couple break up just because of that.. and some couples form so fast ..as fast as getting together after knowing each other for 2 weeks.. Love at first sight you say? But mostly they break up as fast as love at first sight..
and everybody gets hurt..
Why does this happen?
If you want to know why this happens?
The question about a relationship.. what do you want in an relationship?
If you was thinking about holding hands and stuff... then that is the problem...
I dont deny that you cant hold hands or others..
Its just that... that should not be the first thing that cross your mind...
You said you want love... Yes.. Love..?
Define Love...
(now that you have an answer.. what is love?)
Love is actually a very very serious word... a very very very heavy word..
Love is a BIG RESPONSIBILITY..
When one person have strong feeling of attraction for another person.. Its actually called LIKE
When TWO PERSON are STRONGLY LIKING each other.. ... NO! Its just merely LIKING EACH OTHER.. Then what is Love? Love is more than that !!
By now i guess u surely blur about what I am talking about... If you know what I am about to say.. then congratulations.. you know how is to Love someone..
LOVE needs COMMITMENT!! and that means you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of your partner... But this doesn't mean like what you see in TV ... the person suicide when they broke up or failed in chasing the person... NO.. thats not it... The sacrifice we are talking about here is..
To think for your partner.. To care for your partner.. To do things for your partner.. and not asking or wanting anything in return... Always do the best and the best of best for your partner and in your partners interest...
HEY!!! THAT IS NOT FAIR!!! DO THINGS FOR YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT WANTING ANYTHING BACK???
I guess that is what you will say..
and let me tell you.. didn't I mention LOVE is TWO PERSON LIKING EACH OTHER AND A BIT MORE THAN THAT.... THE TWO PERSON BOTH MUST HAVE COMMITMENT!!
Its is not one sided... Its both ways...if you do the best for your partner and your partner do their best for you... then LOVE will be strong and unbreakable...
Yes.. this is hard to accomplish... that is why lots of breakups happen...
So... before you tell the person that you love them... or before you confess... please consider about these.. will you be able to do it? do you truely want them to be your partner for life and forever?? Think carefully... Don't do it just for that momentary fun and need... be serious... or else you will hurt the persons heart.. and you will hurt yourself too... ....
But if you are really sure.. =) then go for it.. LOVE the person with all your heart..
BE COMMITED!
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Aiks... what am I talking about.. haha all these weird things... haha >.< i have no right to say anything actually ... haha I don't even have a girl friend.. hahaha.. I onced tried my best.. but things just have to happen (breakup) no matter how hard i try.. sooo~ forget what I said.. just my stupid opinion... Hahahaha pointless post.. i guess...
LA~LA~LA~ Forget what I said... hahaha i better go play facebook... Talk too much dy..
