Love (the couple type of love / BF-GF Love )...
I suddenly decided to blog about it...
coz my fren Serene borrowed me this few books..
They kinda talk about love and the rights and wrong about it...
I read it.. and find what it said is quite true.. and i do agree with it...
NO OFFENCE! But i'm saying this with the basis of my own experience..what i felt and what i saw..
So often, people especially teenagers confuse about love..
It is true.. there is a drive that makes one eager to have a BF/GF when they are teenage..
But that is because of curiosity? Needs? or just merely wanting company?
How much Love is true and how long will the love last..?
YES! You might disagree with me... even so i also disagree with my self..
But the cruel truth.. I saw couples that have been together for years break up..
Not because if quarrel.. but just simply.. the feeling faded away.. no feel..
Don't you think its such a waste... a great couple break up just because of that.. and some couples form so fast ..as fast as getting together after knowing each other for 2 weeks.. Love at first sight you say? But mostly they break up as fast as love at first sight..
and everybody gets hurt..
Why does this happen?
If you want to know why this happens?
The question about a relationship.. what do you want in an relationship?
If you was thinking about holding hands and stuff... then that is the problem...
I dont deny that you cant hold hands or others..
Its just that... that should not be the first thing that cross your mind...
You said you want love... Yes.. Love..?
Define Love...
(now that you have an answer.. what is love?)
Love is actually a very very serious word... a very very very heavy word..
Love is a BIG RESPONSIBILITY..
When one person have strong feeling of attraction for another person.. Its actually called LIKE
When TWO PERSON are STRONGLY LIKING each other.. ... NO! Its just merely LIKING EACH OTHER.. Then what is Love? Love is more than that !!
By now i guess u surely blur about what I am talking about... If you know what I am about to say.. then congratulations.. you know how is to Love someone..
LOVE needs COMMITMENT!! and that means you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of your partner... But this doesn't mean like what you see in TV ... the person suicide when they broke up or failed in chasing the person... NO.. thats not it... The sacrifice we are talking about here is..
To think for your partner.. To care for your partner.. To do things for your partner.. and not asking or wanting anything in return... Always do the best and the best of best for your partner and in your partners interest...
HEY!!! THAT IS NOT FAIR!!! DO THINGS FOR YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT WANTING ANYTHING BACK???
I guess that is what you will say..
and let me tell you.. didn't I mention LOVE is TWO PERSON LIKING EACH OTHER AND A BIT MORE THAN THAT.... THE TWO PERSON BOTH MUST HAVE COMMITMENT!!
Its is not one sided... Its both ways...if you do the best for your partner and your partner do their best for you... then LOVE will be strong and unbreakable...
Yes.. this is hard to accomplish... that is why lots of breakups happen...
So... before you tell the person that you love them... or before you confess... please consider about these.. will you be able to do it? do you truely want them to be your partner for life and forever?? Think carefully... Don't do it just for that momentary fun and need... be serious... or else you will hurt the persons heart.. and you will hurt yourself too... ....
But if you are really sure.. =) then go for it.. LOVE the person with all your heart..
BE COMMITED!
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Aiks... what am I talking about.. haha all these weird things... haha >.< i have no right to say anything actually ... haha I don't even have a girl friend.. hahaha.. I onced tried my best.. but things just have to happen (breakup) no matter how hard i try.. sooo~ forget what I said.. just my stupid opinion... Hahahaha pointless post.. i guess...
LA~LA~LA~ Forget what I said... hahaha i better go play facebook... Talk too much dy..
9 comments:
nice post!
yes, LOVE is everything about commitment. Committing to each other, relying to one other in a proper way. Not making him MY ENTIRE WORLD, not making me HIS ENTIRE WORLD. Love to me, is a feeling. It's not a responsibility, marriage and after is all about responsibility. Love started everything, even hates & haters.
How love could damage one thing that people treasure the most. wht i hate the most is people who assume they know EVERYTHING ABOUT US, who are actually blind-loving. sheesh
wake up wake up, dumbass ! XD
yes, love needs all sorts of patience, understandings, trust, commitment, tolerance, maturity, senses.
reply bck at ma blog, so i know u replied !
Hm... I've never had a GF before, so feel free to doubt the validity my opinion.
One of the most terrible things I've seen people do is mistake INFATUATION and LOVE.
In simpler terms, the incapacity to differenciate "crush" and "love".
Love has a practical side to it. It involves sacrifice that goes 2 ways. A good example to see how you can love is in the way you treat your parents, and how they treat you. Remember the times your mom or dad cries when you are a kid, sick in bed and crying yourself. Love in the works.
Now take a pet. You really did want a pet. Then you have it. Then after some time you feel like it is a drag to keep the pet, with all the responsibility and all. That's infatuation. It has little or no lasting power.
Infatuation or love. Differentiate that for your relationship, and answers fall into your lap.
So speaketh the man that knoweth not a woman.
nice and beautiful comments.. hahaha seems like everyone has own point of view.. hehe cool... at least we can learn from each other's points.. XD
wow andrew, look at all the emo comments tht you are receiving here. you can start a group therapy session soon =) and btw, being single is cool, to all the singles out there, lets toast! and oh, i know this comment won't last long here, Coz it'll be deleted very soon.... VERY SOON =D
Nope... Nelson... toast! haha i'm single too.. haha this post was with response to the books i read.. and to SOME GOOD OLD FREN of ours tat asked me a few questions hehe.. hahaha yup.. EMO post..so get loads of EMO comments dude... why should i delete.. haha you still like to drop by my crappy blog.. hahaha so ba gua ah u.. hahahaha curiosity huh?
1st, Nel, ur not single.... no toast!! So do i know how to love??? that is the question... lol
then anyone to toast with me.. T_T
you know one thing about advertisements? they never fail, Coz they always work! you and your blog promoting around facebook, of course i'm buying that bro! =) eh Lai.. you're so not single too =.= but who gives a shyte! LETS TOAST, to errrr.... G-Team! (and to nic!)
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